Why People Fail to Achieve Their Goals

It is common to hear people, especially on social media, broadcast their goals in life.

They want to be “this” and “that.”

They’ll be big superstars by the time they turn 25, or they’ll be millionaires by 30, and so on.

For the most part, these goals are mere posturing.

They’re not actually going to achieve their goals.

Sure, they’re probably going to start drafting a plan on how exactly they’re going to conquer their goals, but they’re still more likely to fail than succeed.  

The #1 reason why people fail to achieve goals is that they’re not making the right kind of goals.

They’re only making vague goals.

Ask them the specifics of their goal, and they won’t have a solid answer.

They just want to become rich, they just want to be happy, they want to become financially free.

But they don’t know exactly when that’s going to happen.

Another reason is that many people are all talk, and no action.

They’ll share their goals with everyone, but when it comes to acting on their goals, they’ll bolt.

Even if they have a smart goal in place, they’ll still lack that motivation to actually do something to achieve that goal.

They’ll find it too hard or too difficult.

Suddenly, they’ll be too busy working on something else and won’t have time to work on their goals.

The third reason is people simply can’t commit.

They probably think someone else is going to help them achieve their goals!

But that’s their goal, right?

Or, maybe they’ve got a few hundred big goals they’re working on (small goals toward a single big goal is different) and they don’t know which goal they’re going to pursue today.

They can’t make up their minds.

They can’t even be bothered to figure out which goal appeals most to them, they’re just putting everything out there, hoping someday something will come to life!

Lastly, many people don’t know how to deal with failure.

They encounter failure for the first time, and they tuck their tails in and hide away somewhere, never to be seen again.

The right approach when dealing with failure is to learn from it.

It’s okay to feel hurt, to feel disappointed in yourself.

But don’t let that be the reason you no longer want to move forward with your goals.

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What to do When You Lose Motivation

Motivation is one of the most important factors that will drive you to succeed.

When you lose it, you’re in danger of permanently failing and losing track of your goal.

Here’s what you need to do when you feel like you’ve lost all motivation and you can’t seem to get it back on your own:

1.     Recall your “why”

Why are you chasing this goal?

Do you remember why you chose it in the first place?

Is it because it will ultimately make you and your family happy and wealthy?

 Or is it because it will help many people?

Whatever your reason, you need to remember it.

Recall how it initially made you feel.

It will help re-light the fire under you.

2.     Stick to your positive habits

Over the course of your journey, you should ideally have already cultivated positive habits that will help you succeed.

Habits that are not going to stand in the way of your success, but rather will help you reach your goals.

When you start losing motivation, continue going through the motions, the routines you’ve already established.

If you haven’t established good habits yet, then you better get started!

At this stage of your journey, you need to “Take Action” consistently – your habits will help you do just that!

3.     Seek inspiration

Read inspirational stories about people you look up to.

Is there an entrepreneur, or leader you really respect?

Find something in common with them.

For instance, you can read up on stories about how they successfully overcame obstacles.

You can then try to get ideas on how you can do the same thing.

4.     Ask for advice

Do you know someone who’s going through the same rough patch as you?

Reach out to them and ask for advice.

It’s not a sign of weakness if you seek help.

It works both ways, you know.

You regain your motivation, and the other person gets a boost in self-esteem.

5.     Challenge yourself and set a reward

Rewards work well when it comes to motivation.

You can challenge yourself too, say, complete a task within a week and you’ll get a corresponding reward.

The more difficult the task, the bigger the reward.

If you miss your deadline by even a day, you don’t get your reward.

Think of something you really like – it just may help you revive your motivation!

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Top 6 Strategies to Remain Positive During Tough Times

You’ve probably got a knot in your stomach right now just thinking about tough times.

Is it even possible to remain positive when your surroundings look so bleak?

When your goals seem so far away and seemingly impossible to reach?

This article will help you find the top 6 strategies to remain positive during challenging times.

1.     Surround yourself with positive people

Positive people have the power to uplift the spirits of everyone around them.

Don’t cry in the corner.

Instead, go out and hang out with your positive friends and try to absorb their positivity.

Trust me, you’ll feel much better afterward.

2.     Look towards the future

There is nothing worth looking at in your past, so focus on the present and looking towards the future.

There’s always going to be tomorrow.

What happens today will soon be a thing of the past.

You can bounce back with hard work and a positive outlook!

3.     Count your blessings

Even if you feel like you’ve lost everything, you haven’t.

Look around you.

Look at your family, your friends.

Whatever your status in life is, know that you’re blessed.

You’ve still have life in you, you can still fight back, you can still recover.

4.     Be grateful for what you do have

You’ll always have something to be grateful for.

Whether it’s life, love, laughter, or material wealth, just be thankful.

Be grateful to the people who’ve helped you get to where you are.

Don’t take what you have for granted.

Often, we only realize what’s important, when it is taken from us.  

5.     Don’t lose sight of your long-term goals

When you feel that you cannot go on in pursuit of your dreams, don’t give up.

Take a break, take a vacation.

Go somewhere to clear your head.

If you’ve spent a lot of time trying to chase your dreams, but it seems like you’re not getting anywhere, maybe you need to recalibrate your plans.

6.     Adapt and adjust

Some people find it hard to adapt and adjust to unexpected circumstances.

They want to get things done their way, but often, this is not possible.

They would rather break than bend.

When you do this, you are essentially saying goodbye to your dreams.

If you want to succeed, you need to adapt and adjust to whatever fate and circumstance have brought you.

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